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Advocating for Your Child at School: Complete Parent Guide

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Tediverse Team
Advocating for Your Child at School: Complete Parent Guide

Advocating for your neurodivergent child at school is one of the most important roles you’ll play as a parent. Effective advocacy ensures your child receives the support they need to thrive educationally, socially, and emotionally. This guide provides practical strategies for UK parents navigating the education system.

Understanding Your Rights

Under UK law, children with special educational needs have specific rights:

  • Right to SEN Support: All mainstream schools must provide SEN Support for identified needs
  • Right to Reasonable Adjustments: Under the Equality Act 2010
  • Right to Request EHC Assessment: Parents can request an Education, Health and Care needs assessment
  • Right to Information: Schools must keep parents informed about their child’s progress and support
  • Right to Appeal: Parents can appeal decisions regarding SEN support and EHCPs

Building Effective Partnerships with Schools

Working with Your SENCO

The Special Educational Needs Coordinator (SENCO) is your primary point of contact:

Best Practices:

  • Establish regular communication from the start
  • Be clear and specific about your child’s needs
  • Share relevant reports and assessments
  • Attend all scheduled review meetings
  • Build a collaborative, not adversarial, relationship
  • Document all conversations and agreed actions

How Tediverse Helps: Use the Communication Hub to maintain records of all school communications, store meeting notes, and track agreed actions and outcomes.

Effective Communication Strategies

Before Meetings:

  • Prepare your agenda and questions
  • Gather relevant documentation
  • Review your child’s progress and concerns
  • Identify specific examples of needs and challenges
  • Know what outcomes you want from the meeting

During Meetings:

  • Listen actively to school perspectives
  • Be specific and use examples
  • Focus on your child’s needs, not blame
  • Ask clarifying questions
  • Take notes or bring someone to take notes
  • Agree on next steps and timelines

After Meetings:

  • Summarize agreements in writing
  • Follow up on agreed actions
  • Monitor progress
  • Maintain positive communication

Preparing for School Meetings

Types of School Meetings

Initial Concern Meetings: First discussions about potential SEN needs

SEN Support Reviews: Regular reviews of support provision (at least three times yearly)

Annual Reviews: For children with EHCPs

Transition Meetings: When moving between year groups or schools

Emergency Meetings: Addressing urgent concerns or issues

Meeting Preparation Checklist

  • Review your child’s recent progress and concerns
  • Gather relevant reports (medical, therapy, private assessments)
  • Document specific examples of difficulties or successes
  • Prepare questions you want answered
  • Bring someone for support if helpful
  • Bring Tediverse documentation if relevant
  • Prepare your child’s perspective (if age-appropriate)
  • Know your rights and school responsibilities

Documenting and Tracking

Effective advocacy requires good documentation:

What to Document:

  • All meetings and conversations
  • Agreed actions and timelines
  • Progress reports and assessments
  • Episodes of difficulty or success
  • Communication with professionals
  • Concerns and complaints

How Tediverse Helps:

  • Episode Tracker: Document specific incidents and patterns
  • Communication Hub: Store all school communications
  • Health Passport: Organize all assessments and reports
  • Visual Schedules: Share successful strategies with school
  • Progress Tracking: Monitor improvements over time

Handling Challenges and Disagreements

When Things Aren’t Working

Initial Steps:

  1. Arrange a meeting to discuss concerns
  2. Be specific about what isn’t working
  3. Request specific changes or interventions
  4. Agree on review timelines
  5. Document everything

If Issues Persist:

  • Request a meeting with headteacher
  • Contact your Local Authority’s SENDIASS (SEND Information, Advice and Support Service)
  • Consider making a formal complaint
  • Explore mediation options
  • Consider requesting an EHC needs assessment

Formal Complaints Process

  1. Informal Stage: Discuss concerns directly with staff
  2. Formal Complaint: Submit written complaint to headteacher
  3. Appeal to Governors: If unsatisfied, escalate to school governors
  4. Local Authority: If still unresolved, contact LA complaints service

Supporting Your Child’s Voice

Involve your child (where age-appropriate) in advocacy:

  • Help them understand their needs and strengths
  • Support them to express their views
  • Create visual or written summaries they can share
  • Teach self-advocacy skills gradually
  • Ensure their voice is heard in meetings

Building Your Support Network

Key People:

  • SENCO and teaching staff
  • Local Authority SENDIASS
  • Parent Carer Forums
  • Charities (Contact, IPSEA, etc.)
  • Other parents facing similar challenges
  • Educational advocates or solicitors (if needed)

Annual Reviews and EHCPs

For children with EHCPs, annual reviews are crucial:

Preparation:

  • Review the current EHCP thoroughly
  • Gather evidence of progress and ongoing needs
  • Prepare suggested amendments
  • Consult with your child about their views
  • Coordinate with all professionals involved

Review Process:

  • Attend review meeting
  • Ensure all sections are reviewed
  • Request specific changes if needed
  • Follow up on outcomes
  • Appeal if necessary

How Tediverse Supports School Advocacy

  • Organize all documentation in one place
  • Track progress and patterns over time
  • Generate reports for school meetings
  • Share information securely with school
  • Monitor implementation of agreed support
  • Document episodes to support evidence